The other day I was chatting with a good friend of mine, who is now seeking treatment to have a child of her own. She did say it was not easy not to be pressured by the whole scenario, because people would just keep on asking. And worse still, to misjudge.
I told her, questions will never end.
And the flow would always be :
1. Bila nak kawin?
2. Bila nak ada anak?
3. Bila nak dapat adik pulak ni? (I’m at this phase now)
and on and on and on…
Once, in the ever-so-popular Facebook, an ex-colleague (same co., but diff. dept), whom I don’t quite remember actually, left a message which sounded something like this,
Hey, you kawen dulu, tapi anak I dah 3, you baru sorang!
To which I really wanted to reply,
Geez, I didn’t know we are in a race!
But I didn’t. Just because I felt it was no point making a point with people like that, you see. 🙂
To Ms S,
I wish you the very best of luck, and just ignore those unwanted questions or sly remarks! (I’m sure it doesn’t come from those close to you anyway! ;))
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